Age Preferences

Later on in my 40’s, a man who was within five years either side of my age became more desirable. In my case, the older I got, the more I recognized that the age wasn’t as important as the level of activity in which he was willing to readily participate. A couch potato was no long acceptable.
In reality, younger women had a major impact on reshaping how men perceived their role in a relationship. Younger men are more open to new ideas, sharing rather than dictating and embracing friendship as a priority in their intimate relationship.
I’ve often wondered why men seek women more than ten years younger than they are. A snap judgment tells me that it’s because they can control the relationship more readily. It might not be that they consciously pursue younger women; it’s more likely that they gravitate to them because they receive less resistance to their way of being where an older woman might question them more.

Later on in my 40’s, a man who was within five years either side of my age became more desirable. In my case, the older I got, the more I recognized that the age wasn’t as important as the level of activity in which he was willing to readily participate. A couch potato was no long acceptable. In reality, younger women had a major impact on reshaping how men perceived their role in a relationship. Younger men are more open to new ideas, sharing rather than dictating and embracing friendship as a priority in their intimate relationship. I’ve often wondered why men seek women more than ten years younger than they are. A snap judgment tells me that it’s because they can control the relationship more readily. It might not be that they consciously pursue younger women; it’s more likely that they gravitate to them because they receive less resistance to their way of being where an older woman might question them more.