Custody: Them: Yes ___ No ___
Do they have full or part-time custody? Will you have every other weekend controlled by the kids for ten plus years?
There have been several times that I had planned an evening, bought concert or theatre tickets that were hard to acquire only to have their children come up with a last minute snafu. It’s to be understood but again, why put yourself in such a jeopardizing position if you don’t have to?
When you both have children, it seems to work out for the better because you are already used to the demands children will make. There is also the negative reaction of to sets of children having to learn how to accommodate each other.