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Have you ever been in a relationship where you felt like you had to drag them along to everything you wanted to do? Literally, coerce them into going out to dinner, a show, friend’s house and especially larger social gatherings? It’s a lot of work!

You will usually end up not going or going alone. It becomes a choice you’ll have to make. The odd thing is, a friend of mine said that when he and his girlfriend were dating, she was the one instigating all the activity.

He was so glad that he could count on her to create activities. Then once they were living together, she decided she doesn’t want to do anything.

Why do people change so drastically after they are committed to the relationship? It is not fair to their partner. It’s extremely dishonest and currupts the foundation of the relationship.